![]() ![]() For example, I might say, “We’re so gay!” in our conversations but the word is used in a positive way. My male friends and I say we’re being or acting gay (though we’re all practicing heterosexuals) and this is where my wife takes issue. We’ve never actually carried through with it but I consider myself on the “spectrum” and might be open to gay sex. I’m male and my male friends like to flirt and joke about performing sex acts on each other. My wife questions my use of the word gay as being potentially offensive and I’d like to get your take. She wasn’t harmed by this omission-you didn’t deprive her of information she was entitled to-and disclosing now would only serve to deprive her of something, i.e., the excitement she feels about being there to witness what she thinks is your first same-sex encounter. ![]() So while it’s not ideal that straight or mostly straight guys don’t feel they can be honest with their wives about their long ago and far away same-sex experimentation, NOHOMO, it’s understandable that many straight guys err on the side of keeping that shit to themselves.īut your question isn’t, “Why didn’t I tell her then?” but rather, “Should I tell her now?” And I don’t think you have to. A straight guy doesn’t even have to admit to having sucked one dick one time for his wife or girlfriend to worry he’s secretly gay I get at least one letter every day from a woman who’s worried her husband is gay because he likes to have his nipples played with or his butt touched or because he has feelings. But this worry is common enough to be something of cliché. In fairness to the wife, NOHOMO, not every woman whose straight-identified male partner admits to a little same-sex messing around worries her boyfriend or husband is going to leave her for a dude or all the dudes. If you’re like most straight guys with one or two cocks in your past, NOHOMO, I’m guessing you didn’t tell the wife because you didn’t want her to feel insecure or spend all her free time corresponding with advice columnists about whether her husband is secretly gay. So here’s hoping she doesn’t read my column: You don’t have to tell your wife about the handful/mouthful of times you messed around with another guy in high school. If your wife reads my column, NOHOMO, then you’ve just told her the truth, and the advice that follows is moot. Should I tell her the truth or just let her believe our MMF threesome would be my first time with a guy? -Nervously Omitted Homosexual Occurrences, Mostly Oral Now I feel like I’ve misled her or lied to her somehow. She just assumed I had never had a same-sex encounter. I never did anything with another guy and I never felt the need to mention these early experiences to my wife. I have no regrets but those experiences only served to reaffirm that I preferred women. The truth is that when I was in high school, a guy friend and I fooled around a few times. The only issue is, in reality, it won’t be. She is particularly turned on by the fact that this would be my first sexual experience with another guy. I’ve agreed and she’s been talking about how hot it will be to make this happen once quarantine is over. One thing my wife really wants to try is an MMF threesome. We have also been talking more about our kinks and fantasies. During this time, we have been exploring things sexually, which has been really fun. We have been quarantining at home since March. We have a great marriage and all is well. My wife and I have been married for four years and together for nine. Whoops! There was an error and we couldn't process your subscription. ![]()
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